After 13 months, a tonne of stress, two tonnes of passive aggressive emails and the global promise of a Divorce Shower, it FINALLY happened. My Decree Nisi was granted earlier this month.
I was going to go into a whole diatribe about how I’m so relieved and that I can begin to move on with my life – but the simple truth is that I moved on with my life a long time ago. I used to get annoyed with people close to me who said “Oh, it’s just a piece of paper”, as it definitely represented more to me than that.
However, nothing materially has changed. It’s just mentally that it has. Getting that email letting me know that the Nisi had been granted was such an amazing feeling.
There’s not really much more to say to be honest. I think I’m about 3 or 4 weeks away from the Decree Absolute, which completely ends the marriage. Once that’s granted, then it’s completely sorted!